Showing posts with label living in seoul. Show all posts
Showing posts with label living in seoul. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

flea markets and 'won' buddhism

well hey!
it's been a while, hmm?
im on serious catch-up now - about seven months+ now?
not much excuse for not keeping up with things. it's been a busy summer, fall, and winter for me. my last semester of teaching in seoul was in conjunction with a semester of online grad school (more on that later), and these last few weeks of being back home haven't lent themselves to much time on the internet. ive been focusing on being back with my girl, my family and friends (and computer problems - as always - to boot)

lotsa happenings: summer in taiwan with ginny, a masters in applied linguistics, deciding to leave korea, and plans for going to africa and hong kong in the very near future. but before i delve into those things here, i want to catch up from where we left off...
i believe in my last post, i was nearing the end of my first semester at Hankuk university of foreign studies. the next event i have pictures for was the flea market at school, so i'll start there.

every semester at HUFS we organize a day for each class to take a break from classes, decorate their room on a theme of their choice, and engage in general ridiculousness. this is flea market day (the idea being that everyone also brings in old things they want to get rid of; the classes try to sell their stuff to each other and raise cash in other ways such as setting up gambling games, selling food, and random thievery). there are various prizes awarded such as best decorations, most money raised, best english use, etc. competition is easy to create in korea, as (in my opinion) the education system largely facilitates this attitude toward academics, and it also permeates into other areas of people's lives such as economics, professionalism, society, family, and pretty much everywhere else. so, although the money raised goes to a local orphanage fund (which is wonderful, dont get me wrong), this is not what is on everyone's minds. do i sound a wee bit cynical? oops.

it really is a fun day, though, albeit a bit exhausting for everyone, teachers included (especially those who have to return for night classes - cue violin music). the class i was in charge of organizing and representing was the 1C class. teachers actually really like this day because it can reinvigorate a class that has lost its steam near the end of the 20 week term (the 1C class being one of those). our theme, if i remember correctly, was 'returning to kindergarten'. other than the colorful streamers and balloons hanging from our ceiling, though, im not sure how well we managed create this atmosphere. we DID have a live concert, which was a lot of fun, in which a few students and i played some music to candlelight. they chose the songs ('creep' - radiohead, 'time is running out' - muse, and 'falling slowly' from the movie 'once') to which i played guitar and assisted with vocals, and of course i had to play a solo at the end which i cant remember what i chose. our other guitarist (tom) actually played in a local band in hongdae (an indie, artsy, and a little crazy young-people-district in seoul) - we sounded a lot better than i expected; our vocals guy named 'chan' was really quite good too.

[me and student dongjae 'david' playing some dice game in their halloween-themed classroom]

['hadi' taking money from students from the 1A class]

[this was our 'kindergarten'-themed classroom; they're playing wii bowling for a tournament we set up. that's JYJ mid-swing - it's really kind of cool that the flea market allows students from other classes to wander from room to room and meet other classes which normally doesn't happen unless you live in the dorms upstairs]

[john from 2C class - i cant remember their theme exactly, but it involved decorating their classroom as a beach with ocean, setting up prop-tents on the floor, and the guys cross-dressing (not the ajossis, or middle-aged men, of course)]

[2C in all their glory]

[the 1B class set up a 'gonggi' tournament which is like the korean version of jacks. one player throws four pieces down, tosses the fifth in the air, picks up one piece, and catches the tossed one, repeating this until all four pieces are picked up; they then throw down the four pieces again and pick up two at a time, tossing and catching the fifth piece each time; round three is picking up three pieces and then the last one, and round four is picking up all four pieces on the ground with one toss of the fifth after that, the player has to toss all five pieces in the air and catch them on the back of their hand. the number caught on the back of the hand is the number of points scored for that player, and they then continue from the first round of tossing and picking up one piece at a time. so you can only score points if you make it to the tossing-onto-the-back-of-your-hand-stage without making a mistake which would require you to hand over the pieces to your opponent. short games usually last to 15 points or 20 and some people are just insane at this. i sucked. horribly.]

[my 1C class (with teacher matt in the back)]

[the 1As had a military-service theme (if you're not aware, all men in korea have to serve 2 years and this creates quite a culture)]

[teacher vince wii bowling in the 2C classroom]

[2C's Ahreum selling strawberry-cream-saltine treats]

[the championship round for the gonggi tournament - 1A's Jinny was the winner; it was an exciting game]

that weekend i went to temple with two of my 1A students, chuck and smith. the sect of buddhism to which the temple belonged was 'won buddhism' (wonbulgyo) which is a anti-image sect of buddhism established about 100 years ago in korea by a man who, according to the tradition of wonbulgyo, attained great enlightenment and forsaw the modern world becoming consumed in a material culture and therefore emphasized an detachment from materialism (hence none of the recognizable symbols of other buddhist traditions) and a spirituality rooted in faith with strong adherence to moral discipline. the doctrine outlined by this man's (can't remember his name) became a part of their religious text. i received a copy of the text from these very friendly people which i partially read. i cant remember specifically what else the doctrine is based on, but i do remember being surprised and pleased by a number of things i experienced there.

first of all, the church service is largely reflective and personal. there are a few chantings and reading that everyone does together, but the main purpose of the service as far as i could see it was to facilitate inward exploration. after the service we did some stretching and massaged each other's backs (very similar to warming up for choir practice or something) before heading off into small group discussions. i was struck by how this structure to communal worship was very similar to the organization of church time in christian churches in korea. the small group time was especially wonderful. instead of attempting to interpret scripture with the purpose of establishing mutual agreement on the fundamental meanings of Jesus' words, as is the general custom of bible study in most of the christian churches ive visited in korea, this group session consisted of simply asking philosophical questions about existence and the false implications of the world we live in. questions, thoughtful and poignant ones, were valued, not answers.

ive never been good with answers in bible study and often feel uncomfortable when i hear others giving them, so this was a refreshing and welcome change for me. won buddhism values three forms of spiritual practice (getting these from my wonbulgyo book now): 'samadhi' - the cultivation of the spirit, 'prajňā' - inquiry into facts and principles, and 'śīla' - the consideration of moral choices (karmic action)

in short, i found the experience to be spiritually stimulating and encouraging. i was delighted to have the chance to feel comfortable in a spiritual community in korea. it is amazing where and how you can find encouragement sometimes. experiences like these keep me exploring. although i consider myself a christian, ive found 'brotherhood' in people of many different backgrounds. both the good and bad experiences end up being positive for me and the growth of my own faith.

Thursday, July 30, 2009

the blue house

06 May 2009~

Sunyoung had asked me a month or so previous if I would like to come visit her at her part-time teaching job sometime, and of course I said I would love to. You see, Sunyoung was working at the Blue House. The Blue House is like Korea's version of the White House. Yes, that's right, the official residence of the president of South Korea. As you might expect, 청와대 ('cheongwadae' - 'blue tiled house') also contains several other buildings, and the whole place is thick with security. And this is exactly where my connection lay. Sunyoung was teaching English to the security staff of the blue house. She had been telling me a lot about her work, and now was finally my chance to meet this troop of what I believed to be intimidating ajossis (working men). I couldn't have been more wrong, though. They were all extremely friendly and courteous and excited to try out their English on me. They blew my nervousness out of the water! But the experience also reiterated my observation of how differently in Korea strangers act when they have a reason to know you and when they don't. I barely had a chance to take a breath with all the running around and talking we did. It was a load of fun.

[here's the actual Blue House]

[this is some reception hall]

There were so many strange security precautions like where we were supposed to walk or stand and which way we were supposed to go. We were constantly being rushed along so that everyone would have enough time (there were other groups of visitors). Somewhere along the way, I was given a free, green mug with a picture of the Blue House on it.

[me and Sunyoung]


After the tour, we had lunch in the security guards' cafeteria which was in their office building. It was pretty tasty. The whole neighborhood is right in the middle of Seoul, but I had never been there before, and it felt so different. I imagined how strange I would feel walking down those streets if I were there on my own - the only people who lived there were government workers, and everyone on the street had a suit on. This day turned out to be Sunyoung's last day with her students, so they presented her with a gift of appreciation, and we were able to meet the director of the Blue House security. Pretty cool stuff. I was a little nervous about that, because the range of my knowledge about Korean etiquette only goes so far, and I had never been in a situation like this one before. Still I managed to muddle through and give a few dazzling displays of Korean speaking skills (not really). Definitely a unique experience.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

midterms, pinheads, turkeys, the French Revolution, and drunken baskets

although i was tired from my trip to pusan and daegu, i had to get right to work, writing tests and finishing up grading my classes. tuesday, the first day of midterms, was especially rough because i had three tests to give, all different levels and subjects. wednesday was much better, with only one test and plans to hang out with my class, 1A, afterwards.

the test was finished by 2:30, and five minutes later, we were on our way to the neighborhood bowling alley! this was just the medicine i needed. as i mentioned in my last post, the accident i witnessed on sunday night shook me up pretty bad, and coupled with midterms and problems with my girlfriend the night before, i was run pretty ragged. nothing like spending time with 1A to rejuvenate the spirits!

(teaching side note: sometimes i wonder why many english teachers in korea don't allow themselves to get closer with their students. ive made so many friends through teaching, it's strange to hear other teachers complaining about having to go out with their classes - i've always looked forward to that. i dont think it's because of lacking things in common. language barriers aren't even that hard to overcome with the right attitude. i think some teachers feel the need to maintain a professional attitude outside the classroom; as if they are worried of familiarity undermining away their authority as a teacher. so far, ive found my students respect me more when they feel like im willing to toss my hat aside in order to get to know them better. perhaps it's because im closer in age to many of my students. anyway, my students are great. i love teaching, and i love teaching in korea. it's as simple as that.)

[eileen and jinny waiting their turn - game one started out pretty slow for just about everyone; i bowled around 80 i think... ouch]

[betty and chuck let it fly]

[wook (closely watching the game), chuck, and jade]

after game one, we split off into teams. team one: sam, betty, jinny, wook, and jade - team two: mk, eileen, smith, chuck, and me. game two went a little better. wook amazed us all with an incredible 193 (am i correct?), sending his team into the lead. at this point everyone started getting really competitive and things got pretty ugly. insults and jeers ran rampant through the air. people started cursing each other's families and at one point smith pulled out a knife when betty laughed at his gutter ball. but cheering also became more passionate, and camaraderie was at an all time high. we decided to play one more game and go all or nothing. the stakes: a COLD DRINK. when we took a break before the third game, the air in the smoking room turned chilled with foreboding...

[sam, jinny, and betty - our enemies]

instead of being too tired to play well in game three, many people did even better (except for wook who cashed in all his chips in game 2). jinny got a smashing-hundred-forty-something, and chuck surprised us all by almost tripling his game 1 score! i was probably most surprised by my own luck, starting off the game with a turkey and finishing up with a new high score of 178! (and to think that i used to hate bowling as a kid...)

['the gutter bums' after the match - unfortunately it was beyond the bowling alley employee's capacity to take a clean photo in a brightly lit place... sad.]

afterwards, most of us went on to get some 갈매기살 ('kalmaegisal' - pork loin served unfrozen, uncooked; you grill it in the middle of your table, like samgyeopsal) and the necessary accompanying beverage.


the first 10-weeks of the daytime 20-week english course at HUFS ended on thursday, rewarding the students and teachers with a day off on friday (except for those few of us who have to teach night classes). 1A invited me to join them on their trip to lotte world, one of the highest attended parks in the world with an indoor theme park, an outdoor amusement park, shopping malls, an island connected by monorail, theaters, hotels, sporting facilities, and a folk museum.
[we arrive]

[waiting in line for Gyro Swing which scared the crap out of me cuz you're swung out over the lake so that you're facing downwards with only your seatbelt holding your body from dropping out of the seat - i was imagining dying the whole time... woohoo!]

[sam actually looks like he belongs in there]

[that's pretty much how i looked riding Gyro Drop (see below)]
next stop: bumper cars
we may have waited in line longest to ride these, but it was well worth the wait. nothing like taking out your rage on strangers and seeing their necks fly in unnatural directions - it's like driving fantasy
[i pull john over and ask to see his license]

[lily sideswipes me good]
[waiting for Gyro Drop - the ride where you can experience the thrill of free-falling - betty was the only girl brave enough to ride it]

Gyro Drop slowly raises you up, rotating the platform around so that you can get a really great view of the park, river, and surrounding neighborhood. you pause at the top for a few seconds, spinning around with anticipation so heavy you cant breathe. then it drops and if you aren't already screaming, the air has no chance to get out of your lungs. i rode this one twice :)
gyro drop is almost 400 feet high. when it falls, at the apogee of it's acceleration, you're moving as fast as 84mph (125 f/s). the first time i rode gyro drop, i couldn't breathe at all - my mouth was just hanging open. the second time i rode it, i bet with sam that i could scream louder then him and when we got off, both our throats hurt for quite a while afterwards.
[we were ravenous after gyro drop - we feasted on yummy kimbab, ramyeon, and hot dogs (if anyone knows the korean name for those circle-shaped kimbabs, please tell me - thank you mk for bringing them!)]

[lovely 1A]

[waiting to ride the Atlantic Adventure - jade, jinny, sam, smith & me]

[some cute kids on a field trip (they even had little ties!!!)]

[me an' john]

[mk and betty walking like an old married couple]

[we moved in doors; waiting in line for The French Revolution (i put this in the title just so you would think, 'wtf does that mean?')]

[the hidden cam picture of us - betty (looking pretty bored) and mk in the back, eileen and me up front (i was trying to take off my shirt to flash the camera)]

[lookin' badass inside the virtual roller coaster]
next was a ride on the merry-go-round
[john and jinny (considerably less badass)]

[sam & smith (too boring for you, smith?)]

[mk and me]

[one more goofy pic (note: person on the left is not my student - that's lily, grammar teacher)]

[aptly named, this ride was the equivalent of 'spinning tea cups' - the day wouldn't have been complete without giving these a whirl; i foolishly chose to be in the same cup as sam and felt pretty sick afterwards...]

[our last ride was a revisit to the ever-classic Viking - always fun ...unless you're ginny and you've already ridden it five times]
then it was time to go!

[don't worry mk! we can come back another day!!]